What's wrong with happy wife, happy life?
The second category. This is when women have developed some kind of physical, mental, societal attribute where they begin to think, I'm priceless, I am the prize, I am what's valuable. They have this overinflated sense of ego and pride. Usually it is a coping mechanism for the same feelings of not being worthy, but it's like the rebound effect, the pendulum to the other side, where they feel that I am just the most specialest person in the whole world and nobody is worthy of me. And so they get in this dynamic where men begin to pursue them, and in the woman's mind she's just like, you're not worthy of me. And so they will have short relationships that lack substance. She'll want to be treated a certain way, to be kind of taken care of and pampered. And it's the kind of typical what you see when you hear people say happy wife, happy life. This idea that the woman is actually the center or the focal point of the relationship, and the man is simply created to cater to her whims and desires and her own pride and her own ego. And the man, because he's looking for this special relationship to make him feel secure and whole, is losing himself, his identity, his leadership, his backbone, all of these things, because he's getting a prized woman that somehow is going to complete him or make him feel worthwhile as a person.
Edited from his answer on camera. The clip has the full thing.
From “Why Nice Guys Fail in Relationships”
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